WhAt A DeCeMbEr!!

Happy 2007!! Sigh back to work..

Been slacking for the whole of dec as nobody was in the mood to work.. gotta start being serious again.. Dec was a month of celebrations heh.. Baby's birthday, Christmas, Josh's birthday, New Year!!

Had a bbq on 24th Dec at east coast for baby's birthday.. he is so lucky la.. it rained every other day except the day of his bbq.. heh and we were so afraid we might have to change the venue of the bbq.. we really have to thank sh's dad for preparing all e food for us.. his mee goreng and the marinated food all damn nice la haha.. went to sy's house first and brought her dogs down heh...

Josh and bear bear..

so cute!!.. i mean bear bear...

baby and monkey.. really need to thank monkey and sy for thieir help.. so nice of them..

4 cuties... sy and drumstick.. me and bear bear heh..

baby and his 10 year good fren, Jimmy..

baby's 2kg cake.. compliments of Josh Keli and Ying heh..

birthday kiss heh..

baby with his colleagues..

the boys..

the girls.. hmmm...

me and my baby..

poor bear bear hehe..

And his celebration continued on till countdown on Christmas eve.. spent christmas countdown at clarke quay.. only me and baby cos they all went into Clinic and nv came out.. oh wells..

Josh's birthday was spent at wine bar and mj at my hse.. lost money as usual.. drove my parents to e airport and came home to sleep.. had e car for e long weekend hehe. BUT i had a minor accident.. yes again.. had to take e car to e workshop and i am still praying my daddy dun find about the changed bumper.. sigh something gotta happen on the last day of 2006.. so suay..

Countdown at Clarke Quay again.. this time with dyann, corine, Jaslyn and our other halfs.. ok for them it is as corine and jas are getting married soon... saw fireworks.. so nice heh..

Went to see the Westie i wan to buy yesterday.. its so cute!! its e NYDC dog.. i wan!! but i on't know if i can afford it and i know my auntie will be very scared of it sigh... how?? but i like.. shall go look for dogs after work heh..

So cute!! heh I like!!

Basically i spent my holiday sleeping through the day and staying up at night... back to work now.. bummer!!

DiSiLlUsIoNeD...

Some things are really not wat pple see on the surface.. it might seem all pretty and colorful on the outside but inside is actually jus an empty shell.. things are deceiving and are usually not wat u see.. When things have changed.. I see things i do not want to see, i find out things i do not want to kn ow.. its hard to reverse things back to the way they were when i was still ignorant and naive (although i tink i atill am).. people come and go and i guess that is part and parcel of life..

Although life is unfair to most pple.. i believe nobody will be a winner forever.. i am still waiting for my chance..

My WoRlD Is BeTtEr...

Today, i found out how fake people can be.. ok maybe not today but it didn't feel good to find out that certain pple might appear to be getting along fine with you and yet behind u they are doing otherwise..

Baby always tell me my thinking of people are not right - i tink everyone is good and most of them do something wrong or bad becos of some reasons and difficulties.. nobodyis really evil and mean.. they jus act in a certain way in that moment of folly...

Guess i am really wrong.. Why do i always try to be nice to everyone? Doreen says nobody will actually bother if you are nice to them..

The world is a very sad place.. i think i rather in my own world..

AwWwWw.....

Its our 1st year anniversary this sun.. baby very sweet... he sent flowers to my office... awwwww... *melt* although a bit pai seh cos everyone looking at me when the delivery man came and passed me e flowers, but inside happy happy oso heh.. this is e 2nd time in my life i am receiving flowers and 1st time from delivery hor heh.. tiam mi mi heh...

show u picture of e flowers...

nice hor heh.. seldom get flowers la let me hao lian can? hehe

PaTiEnCe GoInG DoWn....

It was a hell of a week last week.. been so so busy.. and baby not ard.. my latest record staying back in the office was set last thurs at 9:30pm. I stayed back to do shit stuff like packing for my sat event, and no one bothered to help.. not even my boss.. she left office at very early at 2+ and did not come back already.. du lan ah.. nvm la anyway all my events i pack myself one no one offered to help anyway..

I was "chosen" to be in my company's family day commitee so i had to plan the games and all. went to sentosa twice last week, Wed and Fri to recce...had my last workshop for the year on sat. Watched Little Shop of Horrors on sat night.. not too bad but i would like it more if there were more of the Dim Sum Dollies... had dinner at Newton and they came over my hse play mj.. i lost to all of them.. TMD!.. damned irritated.. tink my patience is going down... thanks to my job

Anyway.. finally had to time to upload some of the photos for Batam..

Early morning in the cab...

at Tanah Merah Ferry Terminal.. quite nice leh.. look like airport heh.. ya la i sua ku nv go before ma

Yes smoking Kills.. and baby and Keli each bought 3 packs for $10.. damn cheap la

before we bosrd the boat...

A photo when we jus stepped onto Batam ground

the boys.. keli tip toeing.. trying to be taller than baby.. tsk..

the boys on the swing...

Pretending we are staying in the villa behind heh..

hmmm.. they are acting funny.. so matching heh

we are more normal heh.. Batam has got an ugly beach

Timer ------ SHOOT!

Ahhh.. Life...

lazing at the pool

eh.. ya the 4 of us...

Ying and Keli in the water..

dinner time!! we had to take a buggy to the restaurant! so fun haha...

huge spread for dinner!...

baby and his coconut...

Spies behind us!!.. on the boat back..

Thats e end of our weekend at Batam.. hmmm.. i wonder where next???

AnOtHeR WeEkEnD GeTaWaY...

This time, it was to Batam.. Everyone knows that Batam is the place to have a mistress. There were many men on the ferry with us.. hmmmm.. wonder where they are headed heh...

We took the 10am ferry to Batam... Ying met with a little accident on the ferry... She fell off the chair she was sitiing on. cos the support of the seat was loose.. quite a funny sight as one moment i saw her e other i heard a loud thud and she was on the floor... gave me fright though.. heng only her butt felt sore..

There was nothing much to do at Batam.. same as Desaru... but the beach at Batam was disappointing.. there was no water in the sea during low tide.. looked very dirty... spent the first few hours there sleeping as fri night we were out celebrating monkey's birthday in a room at Grand Copthorne.. had lunch after the nap and went ard exploring... sat at the beach for a couple of hours den went to the pool to soak.. ahh damn shiok man.. dinner was very good... we had a seafood dinner at their restaurant... we even had a buggy to drive us there heh.. there was fish, chicken, vege, calamari, soup, coconut and CRABS!! hahahahaha i was ready to explode after the meal...

Nothing much to do at night so we got mahjong from the reception.. they sent a mj table, tiles and chairs up to our room.. talk about service man.. it was on rental of cos.. $5/hr.. we bought 9 cans of Heinekin and 2 Guinness from DFS so we had to finish them.. losers must each drink half a glass.. very soon all of us felt like sleeping heh.. we only finished the 2 Guinness and 4 Heinekin..

Next day was spent lazing at the pool again... thats life man.. relaxing and lazing around.. very soon it was time to go home.. sigh.. back to work..

Will upload the photos soon.. left my camera with dear heh.. hope he had fun too.. dear going OBS tomorrow.. nobody accompany me...

MeN ArE AlL SeLfIsH...

We are always taught that Honesty is the Best Policy... I have been so honest with everyone.. but.. maybe it was not a good thing to be honest..

Why would i want to be a good person when i do not get anything good in return? Instead i get bullied and pple climb all over me cos i am good... I should not be so considerate and think so much about others.. its time i spare a thought for myself... Why do everyone think bout themselves first before others? shit wat am i talking about of cos everyone is like dat.. Men are all selfish..

Why am i such a pushover? I am so weak..

HaTe To Be WhErE I Am NoW...

I feel very depressed now... dunno what i should do, where i should go..
Feel like a failure... feel like crying..

WoRdS Of WiSeDoM...

Was at an event my company sponsored last night... I learnt something..

Host: What was the craziest thing you had done?
Speaker: Adultry
Host(shocked): You actually admit to that
Speaker: Ya.... Infant enjoy Infantry... Adults enjoy Adultry!!

Comment of the night man!

SpEeD DaTiNg..

yes.. i went for speed dating.. but not cos i want to go there but Josh wanted us to accompany him there.. so me and ying abandoned our bfs on a fri nite to go speed dating.. I asked Dyann along as well cos i thot she would be interested..
We chose this Jap restaurant at Boat quay as that was the best retaurant on the speed dating menu. We were there only for the food so we had to choose a nice restaurant.

We were late cos there was a jam.. by the time we reached there were already many many pple there.. i was damn hungry and hope they would start dinner soon. We each had a no. i am contestant number 17 and ying 18.. Josh was already there he was sitting there quietly and not making an effort to talk to the girls.. he had that look "why am i here? i am too good for the pple here".. sigh wat are we going to do about him.. dyann on the other hand was doing fine and talking to the person opposite her..

Finally it started at almost 8.. all e girls were suppose to sit on 1 side at their respective numbers. The guys have 3 minutes to talk to every girl before moving on to the next one... When dinner was ready, we stopped to eat and see heng suay who was opposite you and you had to eat dinner with him.. The food was not good at all and i had waited so long before they served dinner that i was not hungry anymore..
i kena a guy who was a nature and i tink i made him lose hope in finding a girl who loves nature.. i was e exact opposite of him... he was white i am tan, he like staying indoors i like going out.. he likes reading i like sports... and he asked me why i was there.. he feels i do not need to be there.. heh thanks for the compliment.. anyways after dinner we had to continue small talking.. I repeated the same old things 25 times.. can u imagine how tired i was.. and i hate making small talk..

From this i found out some statistics..


Men
- About 90% are engineers, Josh is an enginner too heh
- Most of them are in their 30s
- They are either too introverted or too conceited
- Most of them came alone as they dun want their friends to know.... hmmm josh u belong to e girls part

Women
- Most of them are either teachers or accountants (excluding me and ying)
- Most of them are in their late 20s
- They are more normal than the guys
- All came in at least in pairs or a group


We were each given a "dating card"..we had to write the name of all the persons we talked to according to their numbers. There was a column on interested or not interested and another one on polite or not polite. After talking each person we were suppose to indicate if we are interested to get to know that person better.. the organisers collected back the cards after everything and they would consolidate the results.

If i wanted to know a person better i would tick his interested beside his name and if he is also interested in me that would be a mutual match and the organisers would release our contact details to each other. If it is only 1 sided, it is called a strike and no information would be released... so.. me and ying only ticked Josh's name.. i tink the organisers must be thinking we set our standards too high that we were only intereted in 1 candidate.. heh... cos we already have someone already ma haha..

I have never felt so exhausted from talking so much.. but some of them are quite interesting to talk to.. but the process was damn tiring..

And so the reults...

Josh
No. of mutuals: 1 (Its dyann cos they made a pact to choose each other)
No. of strikes:5 (minus me and ying its 3)

Dyann
No. of mutuals: 3
No. of strikes: 7

Ying
No. of mutuals: 0
No. of strikes: 19

Me
No. of mutuals: 0
No. of strikes: 12

And the winner is.. Yinghui!! She is so popular la haha.... at least dyann did better than Josh la

After that we had to go pacify our poor bfs heh..
baby u beat all of them hands down k heh.. no competition at all heh